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大家都相亲了几次了呀

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发表于 2010-12-19 21:39 | 显示全部楼层
LS加油,不过第一次见面不用发那么多条短信吧
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发表于 2013-8-16 20:47 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2013-8-16 23:04 | 显示全部楼层
0次,不准备结婚
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发表于 2013-8-16 23:16 | 显示全部楼层
以前上班的时候家里相过一次,后来同学介绍过一次...都黄了。

现在没闲心了,先毕业要紧,至于妹子,年轻的妹子就跟小怪一样每年都刷新的,不要急。
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发表于 2013-8-17 16:06 | 显示全部楼层
2次 都是见光死:)
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发表于 2013-8-17 17:40 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 北一硝子 于 2013-8-18 09:27 编辑

这几年相了十次往上,有只在网上聊聊的,有出來见一面就不继续的,有我看不上的,有看不上我的。

首先,对于内向缩卵不知道该怎么找对象的宅来说,相亲其实是个很方便很节省各种成本的找妹子的好途径。一可以弥补你社交圈子不大找不到资源的缺点;二来相亲的先不谈最后能不能结婚,至少大家是来谈恋爱的也就省去了很多前期追求的时间;三只要你的介绍人够靠谱那么基本上你去见的妹子也很少有不靠谱的出现,而且因为经人介绍,大家也相对会知根知底一些,在这个人心隔肚皮的当下,彼此信任一些也是能够交往的前提。

其次,虽然说起来叫“相亲”,我个人感觉还是叫“介绍对象“更合适更准确。其实无非是男女经人介绍,从朋友做起然后开始恋爱,当然长远目标是结婚。其实和一般男女朋友也没什么不同,无非就是省掉了初期追求之类的。而当两个人感觉对,又多一些了解的时候。前期的功课其实后期也可以补上的。
”相亲“这个词,我总觉得带有很浓重的封建或传统色彩,有点像一锤子买卖,好像两个人见一次两次,比较下彼此的条件,觉得可以就能结婚了——当然这可能是我的偏见。

总之,对我个人来说,相亲就是给我这样的缩卵提供一个认识女孩子的机会和途径,遇到觉得可以的就接触,不行了就再来。总之,如果你真心想找个妹子,那么有机会你就去见好了。

另外,相亲真心是个外貌游戏,因为毕竟没有前期足够的相处时间,所以大家一定是会关注彼此外在的,这也是没办法的事。所以还是尽量把自己的形象整整好,行为习惯和谈吐也是一样。
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发表于 2013-8-18 09:10 | 显示全部楼层
会沦落到相亲的都是奇葩(各种意味
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发表于 2013-8-18 21:07 | 显示全部楼层
3年前的帖子也能挖出来:Q
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发表于 2013-8-19 10:06 | 显示全部楼层
6次左右~
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发表于 2013-8-19 11:27 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2013-8-19 15:24 | 显示全部楼层
阿宅相亲真是老大难问题
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发表于 2013-8-20 22:11 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
0次……难道不应该进么,没选项啊
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发表于 2013-8-21 08:46 | 显示全部楼层
我倒认识几个可能超100的,相亲7年了,基本每星期都有相亲,大千世界无奇不有呀
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发表于 2013-8-21 12:54 | 显示全部楼层
上古巨坟怎么都挖出来了…

顺便0次怎么说
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发表于 2013-8-22 12:19 | 显示全部楼层
比较关心50-100的都是谁
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发表于 2013-8-22 13:06 | 显示全部楼层
大二被我妈劝着去了一次,前阵子毕业之后又半威胁去了一次,给我恶心的够呛
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发表于 2013-8-26 14:34 | 显示全部楼层
时临 发表于 2013-8-22 13:06
大二被我妈劝着去了一次,前阵子毕业之后又半威胁去了一次,给我恶心的够呛 ...

大二就着急,我去。。。。
我现在大三,也被我妈问说有女友没,要没有的话,就介绍个。。。
我表示很开心,然后拒绝了她。
基佬是不需要女人这种生物的!
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发表于 2013-8-26 15:57 | 显示全部楼层
斯勒恩鬼歌 发表于 2013-8-16 20:47
我相亲就是加了对方的QQ,然后随便聊两句,没共同话题.就88了.因为被坑了出来吃几次饭所以没啥共同嗜好的全无 ...

我刚还想说你的情况和我很像,没想到还有后半句
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发表于 2013-8-26 16:59 | 显示全部楼层
我娘拿我的照片给准备相亲的妹子看,说是三次都是看了我的照片说不要相亲了
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发表于 2013-9-5 10:31 | 显示全部楼层
lsabela 发表于 2010-12-13 18:29
5年间相亲次数应该有20次以上了吧,越相越缩,现在已经觉得自己大概已经没办法和人以夫妻方式相处了 ...

天涯人:hug:
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发表于 2013-9-21 02:04 | 显示全部楼层
10来次了
亲戚介绍来的,为了面子不好意思明着拒绝
就当找个人陪吃饭了。
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发表于 2013-9-21 13:19 | 显示全部楼层

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发表于 2013-10-13 21:24 | 显示全部楼层
三分天注定,七分靠打拼

意思就是说如果自己啥都不干只是等着被动相亲的话只有三分妹子,如果积极行动起来就有七分妹子。

爱拼才会赢嘛。
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发表于 2013-10-13 23:17 | 显示全部楼层
快接近30了吧,60%路人,30%被拒,10%主动发卡
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发表于 2013-10-20 00:22 | 显示全部楼层
今天又去了一次,是第二次吧
反正又是小区里邻居介绍的
另外还有个介绍了看过照片但还没见面的。

今天这个为人还是很不错的,如果是男的可以成为很好的朋友。不过我觉得既然对对方没有欲望的话,还是应该当机立断不要耽误她才对吧?希望她也看不上我的条件,这样可以让我完全没什么心理负担。

总而言之,目前我的情况只能被介绍这样的对象了,我觉得另外个也不必见面了
十年之后,如果还没有能力去追求喜欢的人,就孤独一生算了
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发表于 2014-1-25 22:37 | 显示全部楼层
目前只有一个巴掌
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发表于 2014-1-25 22:53 | 显示全部楼层
为什么马区一个月锁帖的设置没有了...
这尼玛都什么时候的陈年老坑了
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发表于 2014-1-26 10:59 | 显示全部楼层
0次
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发表于 2014-1-26 11:15 | 显示全部楼层
为什么没有0次,自由恋爱,初恋变老婆,这种选项
话说我到底错过了多少
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发表于 2014-1-28 13:35 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
10来次吧
都是我发的卡然后这两天好不容易碰到喜欢的被发卡了我的心好痛

----发送自 Xiaomi MI-ONE Plus,Android 2.3.5
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发表于 2014-2-8 11:05 | 显示全部楼层
2次,第一次去就是为了拒绝
第二次就是现在,见了两次之后开始说被家里催得厉害要马上领证,好烦不想见我,后来又说不领证就不跟我出去约会了(她说是出去走走),虽然谈了2个月,虽然挺喜欢的,但是毕竟只在最近几天出去玩过两次,我怎么下得了决定?从初一到现在都不见我,感觉已经放弃我了,虽然每天都有聊,但即使说到五一领证她都说拖不起,到底是我过分还是她不合理我已经搞不懂了,现在整天说给我机会选择更好的(我以前说话伤过她,不止一次……),估计到广州后就成路人了……
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发表于 2014-2-12 09:28 | 显示全部楼层
1次,一个完全没感觉的,我装摸做样聊了一个小时最后表示"这个事情啊不太靠谱"。。。
结果回头了老给我发短信,我去和朋友打三国杀的时候还问我"下次带我一起去吧"。。。
我差点就喷了,大姐我和你不熟好吧
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发表于 2014-2-14 16:58 | 显示全部楼层
相亲了好几次去年相亲遇到喜欢的人了, 可惜只发展了三个月被甩了.到现在还不想继续去相亲.
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发表于 2014-2-22 14:34 | 显示全部楼层
1次,对方是我的初三同学,但是当时我完全没记起来,妹子后来发消息问我是不是某届初三六班然后说我们是同学,我居然回了 是么?可是我完全没印象啊。。。
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发表于 2014-2-22 14:35 | 显示全部楼层
1次,对方是我的初三同学,但是当时我完全没记起来,妹子后来发消息问我是不是某届初三六班然后说我们是同学,我居然回了 是么?可是我完全没印象啊。。。
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发表于 2014-2-22 23:26 | 显示全部楼层
DJ.AY 发表于 2013-8-26 16:59
我娘拿我的照片给准备相亲的妹子看,说是三次都是看了我的照片说不要相亲了 ...

这太悲伤了。。。。
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发表于 2014-2-24 15:35 | 显示全部楼层
3次吧,第三次那个自己挺有感觉的,看了一次电影后被发了朋友卡,后来莫名其妙的每天QQ微信聊开了,也约出来过几次,觉得差不多可以约出去表白的时候,微信上又莫名其妙的被拒绝了,说朋友都当不成(说如果我早点表白其实我们能成),哎,找谁哭去啊
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发表于 2014-2-26 14:33 | 显示全部楼层
有没有0次可以选?
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发表于 2014-2-26 14:33 | 显示全部楼层
有没有0次可以选?
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发表于 2014-3-4 16:30 | 显示全部楼层
断水流 发表于 2010-12-15 19:30
相亲什么的,一点感觉都没有。现在看来自己确实是老了啊,没一点冲动了。 ...

等你遇到你对的人之后就知道靠谱了....
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